Those of you who know me well know I have a lot of friends. I have friends of just about every type married friends, single friends, single guy friends, single girl friends, and I'm going to let you in on a secret. (This probably isn't much of a secret if you have sisters or have seen girls hang out.) When girls get together they talk about you.. a lot. Not the same kind of talking that guys do about girls. For example, it's a rare day when you will catch a girl talking about a guys abs. But we do talk about you, and lately I have been in a lot of conversations with other single girls that run the gamut from drop dead gorgeous to pretty and here are some things that we all say... If you want us to date you.....
1. Ask us out. This should be a duh, but it's really not. All the guys we know that ask girls out have girlfriends. And the rest of you we have never seen do it. Girls want a guy that wants them. We have been told, and reinforced by the way you treat us when we do take the initiative that asking you out is a bad, bad idea. Honestly, almost all the single girls I know (though they don't want to admit it, because it's humiliating to admit) have not been asked out in months or sometimes years... Do you realize what this means guys?... If you don't look like the green eyed monster and are not completely what she hopes to avoid, you have a VERY BIG chance of getting her if you will go up and just do it, and don't worry about acting nervous... You getting nervous is a huge compliment.
2. Get a job. We get that the economy is bad. We are going through it, too. We've had our bouts with unemployment, but we all keep hoping someone will come along who can support us. What this means exactly is different for each girl I talk to. But yeah, you need a job.
3. Move away from Mom. Now if you are still in college this does not apply to you. You need to work on school and getting a degree. Nobody expects this of a college kid. After college once you have gotten a job, you need to try to move out. Now this doesn't mean you have to buy a house or have your own apartment. If you work at Burger King and have to live with 4 other guys in a two bedroom apartment in order to make ends meet, that's okay. Living with mom, nope. And here's why. Living on your own forces you to learn how to manage money, you have to do your own laundry, essentially you have to grow up. Women don't want to be with manchildren. And your mom, if she lets you stay home, is not helping you.
These are the three things girls complain about. If you have all these things going for you and girls still tell you, no. I do not know what to tell you. Maybe you're asking the wrong people. As far as ,looks go we're all looking for different things. Just don't give up if the first girl you ask tells you no.
Well, here's hoping this helps. :)
Happy Chanukah! Merry Christmas! And God Bless!